An extraordinary 1886 Gilded Age mansion built by the Fleischmanns Yeast family on 33 wooded acres filled with native plants, with a stone-staged meadow with great lighting, a bonfire pit, rustic bar, and farm tables for outdoor feasting , this archetypal Catskills estate has brought family, friends, and dreamers together for over a century. The walls of this great house resonate with memories of laughter, of music, of conversations, and of strengthening bonds. We co-create genuinely custom weddings with our couples, including from-scratch menus that are built from the food that has meaning to you.

Ten years and over 230 weddings in, we believe that there are four key elements to helping people create a wedding worthy of marking a lifetime of love with one another:

Real Meaning

Gathering the people who matter to you as you promise to join your lives together is a genuinely sacred thing. It’s so very special. And it can be solemn or irreverent or anything in between.

We believe you should have everything you need to make that meaning in ways that delight you.

Breaking the Rules

It’s easy to feel trapped by what everyone else thinks a wedding is supposed to be. A powerful industry, excited family and friends, and traditions that can feel like peer pressure from dead people, and you can get lost in the swirl. Here’s the best-kept secret about weddings: there really are no rules. Except one…

Being Utterly You

…this is the only rule that counts. The more your celebration and ritual truly reflect who you are and what you’re dreaming in your future together, the more real it gets. So you can show up, as open and quirky and splendid and joyful and vulnerable and real as you are. Because that’s where love lives.

Kindness Matters

Since it was built, Spillian has been a place of generosity and abundance. And, ultimately, about kindness. Always. And in all ways. And we’re here with open arms and hearts to hold your dreams with you. It’s the thing we love most.

Please visit us at spillian.com to learn more!